Day 306

Non-judgmental attitude and practice in everyday life is something that many of us strive for and idealise. In essence it means not to be critical of other people’s thoughts or actions based on one’s own biases, thus allowing for new ideas and theories to emerge. As a medic, it is imperative on me to not have any pre-formed notions or opinions of my patients even when they are alcoholics, unkempt, very posh or anything else.

I notice that while we strive hard to be non-judgmental about others, it’s very different when it comes to ourselves. I find me judging myself often – about the stuff I write, or even think, my behavior on occasions in the past, my lack of understanding and knowledge of certain subjects, my low energy levels at times and even how many things I managed to tick off my to-do list on a given day! It’s silly but true. Acceptance of oneself with all one’s failings and frailties surely must be the foundation of accepting life and everyone else.

“Of course there is no formula for success except, perhaps, an unconditional acceptance of life and what it brings.” Arthur Rubinstein

I do bear in mind that everyday may not be good but there is something good in every day. I stay with that ‘something good’ and keep my attention on it. That makes the rest of it tolerable. I am ok. In fact, I am good. How are you?

One thought on “Day 306

  1. Thank you for your writing. I don’t know you personally but have been touched by your words which are thoughtful and beautiful. I am so sorry for the loss of your son, from what you write it seems he was and is a truly good and peaceful presence in this world. I am wishing you love and peace. I am also a young person suffering with mental health issues, although I have never experienced anything so severe or distressing as your son did. I find your words very comforting and helpful on this path which often feels so lonely. This is something I needed to hear today, thank you.


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