Time is like flowing water.

If you like someone and they like you back, it’s pretty awesome. If over time they come to love you dearly and enjoy spending time with you, it’s a miracle. After a few years if the love grows and they want to spend the rest of their lives with you, it’s quite marvellous, especially if you feel the same way.

3 years ago, we were planning a funeral. This year we are planning a wedding.

Time flows in its water-like way. Asking why it flows the way it does gets us nowhere. It flows in line with its own path, following its own laws. That’s all. It’s a constant effort  breaking away from the time gone by and being fully present to right now – consciously,  with awareness. With gratitude for what was and what is. With gratitude for love.

Lifting a big rock feels heavy. If I put it down it’s not heavy anymore. As soon as I lift it up again, it’s heavy again. Where does the heaviness come from? It comes from lifting this thing. So, I put it down. That’s all I need to do. Just put it down. And stay still. That’s all.

Si and I get married in 2 weeks. 🙂

12 thoughts on “Time is like flowing water.

  1. Wonderful news Sangeeta. What a lovely start to my day to hear that you are getting married. You have been through so much together and to have found your soulmate is very special. You must send pictures ! Congratulations and lots of love. Hazel x

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    • Thank you Hazel. Si has been a huge source of strength and support for me through this very difficult time. He has really shown his commitment and humanity. I am lucky. Yes. Will send some pictures. xxx

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