Couple of years before he died, Saagar thought I needed to see a therapist. He didn’t explain why. At the time I couldn’t figure out what he meant. I guess he could see that I did not know how to access the sweetness of life. I allowed preoccupations of work and practicalities of life to fill my time, leaving little room for love.
Painfully delicate and surprisingly strong, silk resembles love. The silkworms destroy the silk they produce as they emerge from their cocoons. That is why farmers have to make a choice between silk and silkworms. Often they kill the silkworm while it is inside the cocoon so as to pull the silk out intact. It takes the lives of hundreds of silkworms to make as scarf. But for the silk to survive, the silkworm has to die.*
At a small and sweet ceremony, in the middle of nowhere, in the presence of twenty people, holding the holy fire as witness, Si and I tied the knot yesterday. It was a joyous day, a celebration of love.
On the previous night the moon was full. Saagar was with us.
“Sorrow prepares you for joy. It violently sweeps everything out of your house, so that new joy can find space to enter. It shakes the yellow leaves from the bough of your heart, so that fresh, green leaves can grow in their place. It pulls up the rotten roots, so that new roots hidden beneath have room to grow. Whatever sorrow shakes from your heart, far better things will take their place.” – Rumi
*Ref: ‘Forty rules of love’ by Elif Shafak.
Beautifully written. Congratulations!
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Thank you very much Bettine!!! xxx
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Congratulations to you both, you look stunning, Simon too of course. So very pleased for you both. With love Robert and Linda xxx
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Congratulations. Love is beautiful, love is kind. Saagar will be with you. The bond of love is never broken. Love ..Marie
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Thank you Marie! Love sustains. It is life saving. I feel truly blessed! xxx
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Thank you very much Linda and Richard. I hope we will meet again soon.
Lots of love, S. xxx
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Congratulations, love will survive and lives on.
Caroline and Graham.
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Dear Caroline and Graham, thank you very much for your greetings! I wish you and your family as joyous Christmas and 2018. Oh! The bitter-sweetness of life! Lots of love, S. xxx
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Congratulations Sangeeta. May love abound forever in your heart and your home.
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Thank you Ade!!! 🙂 xxx
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Lovely picture of a joyous day. Many congratulations and lots of love Sangeeta an Si. Hazel xx
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Thank you Hazel! I feel blessed 🙂 xxx
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