Who we are doesn’t always show up in the way we do things. Something holds us back from bringing our unique gifts to the world. In my case it has been the fear of being judged as too soft, too loopy. We end up being like (read ‘as boring as’) everyone else. May be they are terrorised by other’s judgements too. Best to stick to the narrow and straight.
Yesterday, the e-mail below bounced into my inbox, all purple and pink in Comic Sans MS. It was such a refreshing change from the bland factual one-line out-of-office replies, that I had to share it here. He spoke the same language as me and so unreservedly. Being himself fully.
The mission statement of the Co-production collective he leads is : “Our vision is a world where diverse knowledge and experience are recognised and valued in the co-production of research, services, and policy development.”
Indeed, changing the world, one connection at a time. Not losing a single opportunity to connect. Not even an e-mail from a stranger.
💛 Hello lovely,
Thank you so much for your email.
I’m really grateful you’ve taken the time to get in touch.
If you’ve emailed me, it’s probably because something matters to you. Please know that it matters to me too.
I just wanted to let you know that I may take a little while to reply.
I live with a number of long-term health conditions, so I’ve learnt that I need to be intentional about how I use my time and energy. Some days I’m happily working away with a cuppa by my side. Other days, my laptop stays closed while I take the time I need to rest, recover and simply be.
That hasn’t always been easy.
For a long time, I thought I had to keep pushing, always be available and put everyone else first. I’m slowly learning that rest isn’t something we have to earn. Looking after ourselves isn’t selfish. It’s what helps us keep showing up for the people and things we love.
📧 I aim to reply to emails within three working days, although occasionally it may take a little longer if my health needs to come first.
🚨 If your enquiry is genuinely urgent, or you’ve not heard from me after a few days, please contact my wonderful PA at pa.isaacsociety@gmail.com, who’ll be happy to help or make sure anything important reaches me.
🌿 Before you go, here’s a few gentle reminders, for both of us.
🤍 You don’t have to earn your rest.
🌱 Healing doesn’t always mean doing more. Sometimes healing looks like slowing down.
💚 Your worth has never been measured by how busy you are, how many emails you answer or how much you achieve. You matter simply because you’re you.
⚖️ A kinder world starts with how we treat each other, but it also starts with how gently we treat ourselves.
☕ So, if you can, put the kettle on. Step outside for a few minutes. Listen to the birds. Hug someone you love. Cuddle a pet. Sit in the sunshine. Read a few pages of a good book. Have the nap. The emails will still be here when you get back.
If today feels heavy, I hope you know you don’t have to carry it on your own. Reach out to someone you trust. Speak to a friend, a family member or someone who can be there with you.
If you’re in the UK or Ireland and you’re in emotional distress or crisis, you can contact Samaritans any time, day or night, by calling 116 123 or emailing jo@samaritans.org. You don’t have to be suicidal to get in touch. Sometimes we all need someone to listen.
Thank you for your patience, your understanding and your grace. It means more than you know.
Take gentle care of yourself.
With love,
Isaac Samuels OBE
Social Change Leader
Changing the world, one connection at a time.
💚 “Be gentle with yourself. The same compassion you so freely give to others is something you deserve too.”